Tuesday, 17 November 2015

Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now?






 Mr Rights coming but hes in Africa and hes walking

Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now?

 Yea, he better be on his way towards Kenya coz I'm already in Africa! But I think I found mine. Met him exactly One Month, Three weeks and 3 days ago. He has the most beautiful brown eyes, most sweet smile and most soothing deep voice ever...my very own Barry White! Ok, that's a bit too deep, but his voice makes my lady parts percolate!

He is the first gentleman to show interest in me. I have met quite a few jackasses and let me tell you they ain't pleasant...first dates were drinks, second...drinks, third...his house for drinks so he can have a taste of your special fountain as a bonus....enough is enough, too many drinks for me! Pubs and night clubs were the only venues. And stupid me for accepting and finding out when it's too late that all they were interested in is my lil lady lumps. Mmmhh...nothing more!

Sometimes I feel like I took Cher's advise too far..... "A girl can wait for the right man to come along, but in the meantime that still doesn’t mean she can’t have a wonderful time with all the wrong ones." ~ Cher

So yea, getting used to Prince Charming was strange for me at first. Opens doors, pulls out chairs for me, holds me by the waist as he let's me have the way before him and holds my hand in public. Kisses me on the lips when we meet and his hugs...oooohhh! Teddy bears have nothing on my bae. Wait, did I just say bae?

He's focused, knows how to treat a lady (his daddy made sure of that, I owe him a drink for that one...no, shoot, drinks bring back bad memories), and he adores me. He's been through a lot. That is one thing we have in common. The ugly dramas of ex's, but then again who hasn't? And we both have a love child each. That's quite a pairing right? I feel he completes me, something I have not felt in a long time. He has become my friend, my lover and he's becoming my soulmate. 

These are all feelings we feel at the beginning of relationships, right? Will this one last? Will he always be my Knight in Shinning Armor? Will he keep his promises to me? Will I be forever be his side kick? His partner in crime? His confidant and partner through the wire and even over it? Is he my Mr. Right or my Mr. Right Now? 

But then again, Mami (my beloved mum), always said, when you stop trying to find the right man and start becoming the right woman, the right man will find his way to you.

And speak of the devil, no, angel...most definitely angel, he just walked in...have to cut this short. Until next time...I guess. 

Sayonara!